We want you to know how deeply we respect and admire the incredible choice you’re making for this child. It’s hard to put into words how much your love and selflessness means. The anticipation and joy we feel about welcoming this child into our lives are immeasurable, but we also recognize the strength and courage it takes to walk this path. We can only imagine the emotions you’re experiencing right now. Please know that we are committed to walking alongside you with understanding, compassion, and support as we navigate this together.
We live on a 10-acre farm in North Central Arkansas, where we’ve built a life filled with love, laughter, and plenty of room to grow. Our son, Simon, joined our family through adoption last December, and at a year old now, he keeps us on our toes! Our hearts are full, but we feel ready and excited to welcome another child into our family and would love to give Simon a sibling close in age. Keep scrolling to learn more about us and the life we’ve built together.
In the very first week of dating, we sat down for a heartfelt conversation about our shared dreams of having a family. It was clear to both of us that our relationship was not merely for funsies; we were destined to build a life together. Our love had blossomed years earlier, but we had to wait for the stars to align. God’s timing.
A previous battle with cervical cancer had left me unable to carry children, and although I already had three wonderful grown children from before Sam, he and I had a strong desire for kids together, and I couldn’t wait to embark on that journey with him.
We explored the possibility of surrogacy, without hesitation. Over the next two years, we transferred five embryos to two incredible surrogate mothers. Despite five unsuccessful attempts at getting pregnant through IVF, we came to understand that God had a different plan for us.
I have three grown wonderful children from previous relationships: Brandon (25), Grace (23) and Ella (20). I’d always dreamed of having a large family, but in 2010, I was diagnosed with cervical cancer and eventually had to have a partial hysterectomy, leaving me unable to carry anymore babies.
I’m a Web Developer with a deep passion for my craft, and I feel truly blessed to have a career that feeds my creative spirit. When my kids were younger, I had the privilege of staying home with them, and during that time, I taught myself how to build websites—a skill that quickly became my calling. Today, I work remotely as part of a creative team, where I get to do what I love.
When I’m not behind a desk, you’ll find me working with my hands. Whether it’s woodworking, crocheting, painting, building something new, tending the garden, or simply relaxing in the pasture with our lambs, I love staying connected to the tangible joys of life on the farm.
Sam was made to be a dad. Kids are naturally drawn to him, and it’s no surprise—he’s sensitive, kind, and always finds thoughtful ways to show how much he cares. Watching him interact with children is one of my favorite things; his patience and warmth shine through every time.
He’s the kind of person everyone can count on, the one who’s always there to lend a hand or a listening ear. Sam has an incredible ability to see the good in people and situations, no matter what.
By day, Sam works in IT and proudly embraces his inner tech nerd. He’s brilliant at solving problems, resourceful, and one of the hardest workers I know. On top of that, he has served our country for over 17 years as a dedicated member of the Army National Guard.
Sam’s imagination keeps him young at heart. He loves the outdoors—whether he’s hiking, camping, cycling, or just relaxing in a hammock with a good book, nature is where he thrives.
The world could use more people like Sam. He’s the perfect mix of strength and gentleness, and I’m so grateful to have him by my side.
Brandon, Grace, and Ella are our amazing grown children from my previous relationships, and Simon, our youngest, joined our family through the incredible blessing of adoption.
Brandon, 26, lives near Fort Worth, TX, where he thrives in his role as a manager at FedEx. Grace, 23, is making a difference as a Patient Care Technician at a local hosipital while pursuing nursing school. Ella, 20, is a substitute teacher with plans to pursue welding. And then there’s Simon… now 18 months old and doing all the things toddler boys do! He’s curious, full of energy, and always on the move, keeping us on our toes and filling our days with joy and laughter.
With the older kids now grown and spread out, it’s rare for all of us to gather together, but when it happens, it’s a truly special treat for me. Those moments are filled with love, laughter, and memories I’ll always cherish.
We want our values to align with yours, so it’s important that we are honest with where we stand. Should our perspectives align, take solace in our commitment to shield this child from societal pressures and the negativity of our world, fostering an environment that encourages their genuine growth and development.
We value love, kindness and honesty. We prioritize being consistently present for each other, fostering an environment where our children feel comfortable approaching us in any situation, knowing they will be met with love.
God is a huge part of our lives. As parents, our aim is to cultivate spirituality in our children, leading by example to show them the path of a Godly life. We are members of a small church just a short drive from where we live. Our commitment extends beyond Sunday church visits; we strive to embody worship through compassionate actions—being a friendly face to someone in need, providing a meal to those without, assisting the hurting, and refraining from passing judgment — Something that we all need to work better at doing in our daily lives. Demonstrating worship through our actions is paramount to us. We take time to thank God for each meal in front of us and stop to look at the beauty in the world and give grace to Him for all that has been blessed with. We reserve our Sundays to rest and family time and lately spend it listening to Jordan Peterson’s series on Exodus while we assemble our latest puzzle. :)
Family time is very crucial. We eat every meal together as a family, at am minimum. When my kids were younger and still at home, we would each go around the dinner table taking turns sharing 3 good things that happened to us that day. Life can be hard at times, but we always try to hunt the good stuff.
We are very holistic and trust that God has put everything that we need to nourish and heal our bodies in our world. We do not believe in the general use of Western medicine, although we realize there are situations that call for it from time to time.
You face the significant decision of choosing the perfect parents for this child. Here’s what we hope for in the journey. Although none of these are deal-breakers, they represent our ideals. Hear why below.
We lean towards a semi-open or an open adoption, where updates and photos/videos can be shared often. And we can all meet from time to time if that is something everyone is comfortable with.
We wholeheartedly welcome babies of any and all races into our family! If this child happens to be of a different race, they will be embraced with love by our entire family. While Sam and I are white, my son is bi-racial. Our unique, culturally diverse backgrounds extend beyond our immediate family, creating a beautiful melting pot that we cherish.
Thank you sincerely for taking the time to delve into our lives. We hope this glimpse into our world reflects the immense love we’re eager to share with a child. We deeply respect your adoption consideration, and any child welcomed into our family will receive boundless, unconditional love and every opportunity to pursue their dreams. We commit to nurturing their uniqueness and promise to show them the good in this world.
We recognize the weight of your decision and pray for your peace in choosing the best path for your child. We’re open, transparent, and willing to address any questions you may have. Our hearts extend the warmest wishes for you, and our thoughts and prayers accompany you throughout this difficult journey.